Yesterday afternoon I received another invitation for a wedding. Yesterday evening I received an email from one of my best friends informing she got engaged last weekend... Wow. Wherever I turn, wherever I look or whatever conversation I hear, there's always uttered THAT word starting with an "M". I mean really. Ok, I am 27 and it's high time I started at least thinking about that. On the other hand, I live in Sicily where the average age of the couples who decide to get married is: 30-35 for women and 35-40 for men (no, I'm not kidding), so there's no rush. I mean I want to get married, I really do but I think in my situation it wouldn't change much and organising all that thing would only trigger problems... Where? Here in Italy or there, in Poland? Who invite? Only the closest relatives and friends or also people who invited me for their weedings in the past but with who I haven't had any contact at all for long years (but who may feel offended if I don't invite them). Why? Just because I should or because I want? I think I'm getting a depression.
Take a deep breath... OK... Better. Here are the facts. I'm living with my bf, we are happy. We aren't thinking about having children now. We want to buy a new, bigger appartment in a year or two. This is the goal now. I'm 100% certain that getting married in our case wouldn't change a single thing. Besides I still feel a (little) girl not a woman. And more than a wedding ring, I would prefer getting a dog.
And at first I would look like that:
And then after a few months like that:
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"ring", "panic", "a girl with a dog 1", "a girl with a dog 2"
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